Chatmail Relay vs qTox
A side-by-side comparison of two self-hosted chat & communication options — licensing, setup difficulty, resource needs, and what each one replaces.
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Chatmail Relay
Minimal email server tuned for Delta Chat messaging
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qTox
Peer-to-peer encrypted messaging and calls over Tox
| Feature | Chatmail Relay | qTox |
|---|---|---|
| Category | Chat & Communication | Chat & Communication |
| License | MPL-2.0 | GPL-3.0 |
| Language | Python | C++ |
| Setup difficulty | Medium | Medium |
| Min. RAM | 512 MB | 128 MB |
| Deployment | docker, bare-metal | bare-metal, binary |
| GitHub stars | ★ 476 | ★ 4,977 |
| First released | 2023 | 2014 |
| Replaces | WhatsApp, Signal | Skype, WhatsApp |
Why pick each one
Choose qTox if…
- Released under the GPL-3.0 license
- Active community (5k GitHub stars)
- Written in C++
- Tiny footprint — runs in 128 MB RAM
Frequently asked questions
Is Chatmail Relay or qTox better?
Neither is universally better. qTox has the larger community; both share a medium setup difficulty, so the decision comes down to features and licensing.
Are Chatmail Relay and qTox free and open-source?
Yes. Chatmail Relay is licensed under MPL-2.0 and qTox under GPL-3.0. Both can be self-hosted at no software cost.
Can I run Chatmail Relay and qTox with Docker?
Chatmail Relay: yes. qTox: check the project docs for container support.