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Toxic vs Chatmail Relay

A side-by-side comparison of two self-hosted chat & communication options — licensing, setup difficulty, resource needs, and what each one replaces.

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TO Toxic Terminal-based client for the Tox messaging network VS CH Chatmail Relay Minimal email server tuned for Delta Chat messaging
FeatureToxicChatmail Relay
CategoryChat & CommunicationChat & Communication
LicenseGPL-3.0MPL-2.0
LanguageCPython
Setup difficultyMediumMedium
Min. RAM64 MB512 MB
Deploymentbare-metal, sourcedocker, bare-metal
GitHub stars★ 1,301★ 476
First released20142023
ReplacesSkype, WhatsAppWhatsApp, Signal

Why pick each one

Choose Toxic if…

  • Released under the GPL-3.0 license
  • Active community (1.3k GitHub stars)
  • Written in C
  • Tiny footprint — runs in 64 MB RAM
Toxic details

Choose Chatmail Relay if…

  • Uses open email standards
  • Hard to censor
Chatmail Relay details

Frequently asked questions

Is Toxic or Chatmail Relay better?

Neither is universally better. Toxic has the larger community; both share a medium setup difficulty, so the decision comes down to features and licensing.

Are Toxic and Chatmail Relay free and open-source?

Yes. Toxic is licensed under GPL-3.0 and Chatmail Relay under MPL-2.0. Both can be self-hosted at no software cost.

Can I run Toxic and Chatmail Relay with Docker?

Toxic: check the project docs for container support. Chatmail Relay: yes.

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