Commet vs ejabberd
A side-by-side comparison of two self-hosted matrix & xmpp options — licensing, setup difficulty, resource needs, and what each one replaces.
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Commet
Cross-platform Matrix client built with Flutter
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ejabberd
Robust, scalable XMPP messaging server
| Feature | Commet | ejabberd |
|---|---|---|
| Category | Matrix & XMPP | Matrix & XMPP |
| License | AGPL-3.0 | GPL-2.0 |
| Language | Dart | Erlang |
| Setup difficulty | Easy | Hard |
| Min. RAM | 256 MB | 512 MB |
| Deployment | binary, source | docker, bare-metal |
| GitHub stars | ★ 100 | ★ 6,711 |
| First released | 2022 | 2002 |
| Replaces | Discord, Slack | Slack, WhatsApp |
Why pick each one
Choose Commet if…
- Released under the AGPL-3.0 license
- Easy to set up — beginner-friendly
- Written in Dart
- Tiny footprint — runs in 256 MB RAM
Frequently asked questions
Is Commet or ejabberd better?
Neither is universally better. ejabberd has the larger community, while Commet is simpler to set up (easy difficulty). Choose based on the comparison table above and your own setup.
Are Commet and ejabberd free and open-source?
Yes. Commet is licensed under AGPL-3.0 and ejabberd under GPL-2.0. Both can be self-hosted at no software cost.
Can I run Commet and ejabberd with Docker?
Commet: check the project docs for container support. ejabberd: yes.